So I went to see the new Shrek movies today. It was pretty good; though, there was some moment I felt like they (the film makers) were trying too hard to impress the audiences by adding too many extra scenes, but overall it was entertaining to watch. Not to spoil the movies, but I think the main message of the movies is very meaningful. We --as mankind- usually don't appreciate the the present; some will always longing at unrealistic dream of the future; some will always looking at the unerasable past and regret; yet the moment of living is right now, at this very moment, with that very special people that we're having :) ...so I thought about "That October"
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True, I sometimes dwell on the past too much, but I find that in order to not make mistakes... i must remember my past mistakes and always takes that into consideration so that I won't walk on the same path twice :)))
ReplyDeletelol let me continue my thought
ReplyDeletewell, there were two thoughts...
Angel's thought...yet it's true that you should remember your lesson so you won't make the same mistake twice, but if remembering your past is making you mournful and sorrow then you should forget it ..(sorry I was the one who stirred it up lol).. cuz your mood not only affecting yourself, but also affecting your loved ones as well, especially your bf. What if, just what if, you're seeing your bf keeps thinking about his previous relationship and depressed all the time; he keeps writing blogs about his "November" or "December" all the time lol, will that make you sad and offended!?! Yet, love is consisted of understanding and and patient, but there is a limit to everything; Plus, the ultimate goal of relationship is joy and happiness, if you're keep lacking of that then you most likely to put your current relationship to jeopardy...then you will look back at your current and regret again :(
Evil's thought....maybe your current relationship is not strong enough to overcome your past; maybe your bf is just a baxter (baxter is a rebound, that word is not in a dictionary, it's from a movies "The Baxter (2005))
OMG, what the heo do I know! I have never been in a relationship, those are just thoughts that I have. Don't take my words for it, especially my evil thought cause I was trying to manipulate you hahaha. There is an angel and a devil in my head :D