Chi & Em

I have a terrible social skill. I guess I can blame it on my mental stage where I keep holding on to my old point of view. I have forgotten the fact that I'm no longer a kid. For example, when I approach a conversation with a women, I will refer to me as "con" and call her "co^" or "ba'c". But in fact, she is only in her 40s. Same thing, when I approach a girl, I'll call her "chi" but she is younger than me. Women are extremely sensitive to their age and some will actually be upset if I refer to her older than her age. The other day, a woman got grouchy because I call her "co^" ....aycaramba, women women women!! :/